Kanye West? He’s kind of controversial. Religion can be controversial. And the death penalty, should you bring it up at Thanksgiving dinner, is probably going to get everyone going, too.
But frugality? Nope. It’s boring. Straightforward. Not at all controversial. At least, it shouldn’t be, if you know what the word means.
By definition, frugality is being prudent. Economical. Thrifty. Basically, those words mean getting the most out of your resources by not wasting any of them. I can’t think of a single controversial thing about that. Unless you like the idea of spending more time and money than necessary for something.
Yet some people are turned off by frugality because of a handful of dumb misconceptions. Frugal people spend hours making laundry detergent, for example. Or, we don’t care about making money; only saving it. Oh! And frugal people never buy anything, we just stay at home counting our money and stuffing it under a mattress. A mattress we found in a dumpster, naturally.
Frankly, these stereotypes annoy me. Brokepedia might be a tongue-in-cheek name for this website, but frugality isn’t about being poor. On the other hand, being broke did help me appreciate frugality. And frugality had a big hand in my transition from broke to financially stable to financially secure.
Lately, I’ve been thinking a lot about this site’s larger purpose–why I want to keep up with it, what it’s all about. In defining this, it helps to have a better understanding of what frugality is all about. So here goes: the Brokepedia frugal philosophy.
Brokepedia focuses on the “spend less” part of building wealth
Here’s the thing. There’s a really basic formula for building wealth, and it goes a little something like this:
Spend less than you earn.
This is so obvious, it’s almost painful. If you want to keep your money, you’ve got to have more of it coming in than going out. The “earn” part of that equation is huge. Earning money is much more difficult, and less accessible, than saving it. Anyone can be frugal at pretty much any time. It takes a lot more effort to earn 100k a year. However, the two are not mutually exclusive. You can do both. In fact, you should do both. Here’s why.
Spending less and earning more work best when used together
If you don’t learn how to spend less, you’re simply going to keep spending the same amount you earn. Your lifestyle inflates, but you build nothing. Second, it’s rare to become a multi-millionaire overnight. On the way to having more money than you know what to do with, most of us will do well to cut back on our expenses.
But, okay. I’ll admit, if you’re trying to build wealth, earning more deserves more of your time and effort than spending less. And that’s partly why I launched this website. I wanted to create a database of easy-to-implement, practical tips for saving money. I wanted to create a frugal encyclopedia to make “spending less” simple and not time-consuming.
Frugality isn’t about penny-pinching
Some people might assume I’m poor because I use coupons (automatic coupons, mind you) to save money on my groceries. And some people might assume I’m rich because I take a helluva lot of trips during the year.
Being frugal isn’t about scrimping in every area. It’s about making the most of your money. And my money makes me happiest when I use it for travel. So I cut back everywhere I can to make room for spending on the things I love.
While pennies add up, being frugal is less about scrimping than it is about using your money wisely, so you can use it in a way that benefits you most. This varies from person to person, so at Brokepedia, I want to encompass everything. Then, readers can pick, choose and search the expenses they want to save on, so they have more money for the things they need. Or want.
Frugality is about your time, too
Yeah, some frugal habits are more trouble than they’re worth. I don’t write about those topics at Brokepedia. I write about automating your frugality. And getting recurring discounts on your bills. And taking advantage of discount days or freebie days at movie theaters and museums. Those things don’t inherently require much time or effort.
Again, frugality isn’t just about spending less. It’s about getting the most out of your resources, time included.
There’s nothing “extreme” about frugality
There is no “extreme” frugality. It’s the opposite, actually. Frugality is about balance–the balance between resources spent and the value received. Or, as Your Money or Your Lifeputs it:
Frugality is something like that—not too much, not too little, but just right. Nothing is wasted. Or left unused. It’s a clean machine…that magic word—enough.
Heavy stuff here, man. I guess I never intended for Brokepedia to be too serious. I simply wanted a way to share all of the money saving methods I came across.
But I was surprised, in interviews and in writing about personal finance in general, that frugality needed to be defended. Criticisms about frugality started making me a little self-conscious. A little confused. But it’s good to have a sense of purpose, even if this isn’t exactly a philosophical site.
I try, and I’ll continue to try, to keep these ideas in mind when I write these not-so-serious posts.
(And if you like this sort of philosophizing, follow my personal blog, where I post more of this kind of stuff.)
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Best post to date!
Thanks, Will! Maybe I’ll write these types of posts here every now and then. I wanted the site to be less about contemplating on being frugal and more about finding ways to actually do it. But maybe there’s room for both 🙂
Brilliant–you nailed it! The concept of “enough” is lost on so many today. As Ma Ingalls said in the Little House books, “Enough is as good as a feast.”
I love your site; keep it up!
Thanks so much! I agree. Striving for more can be a great thing. There’s nothing wrong with striving to earn more; I certainly do. But frugality keeps you from turning into a giant consumption machine. Work, buy, work, buy, work, buy. Knowing the concept of “enough” and being discerning with your resources gives them a better sense of purpose, in my opinion.
Preach on, frugal sista!
Will do my friend will do!
I love that you focus on frugality and time. That aspect — time — is the most important piece of the puzzle to me. By being more frugal, I’ve been able to reduce the amount I work (on things I don’t like doing) and focus on what I care about most: reading, writing, and friends. This is a simple equation for me, and it all has to do with frugality. If I save more, I get more time! 🙂
Good point! Frugality and productivity are both about getting the most of something. And they do usually seem to go hand in hand.
Another great article, Kristin. I’ve been reading your stuff on GetRichSlowly and have been impressed by your perspective on frugal living. I think it’s up to us in the PF community to really re-define what being frugal is, because the face of frugality is someone up to their eyeballs in coupons and being cheap for cheap’s sake.
Why, thank you! I’ll do my best, and I hope you stick around 🙂
Oh yeah! Totally agree. I enjoy defending frugality, as it were, but I agree with you that it’s rather absurd that I need to in the first place. Frugality for me equals freedom and I see nothing wrong with that. Thank you for this post!
Thanks for your comment! It’s nice knowing there are many like-minded folks out there.
Now I know why I love visiting this site, we share a common philosophy.
It’s often difficult to avoid the temptations of purchases/expenditures that don’t truly add value to my life. (marketing is sooo good these days, but basic math always wins the day)
Determining what YOUR values really are is critical in this endeavor.
Luckily, my wife and I tend to value the same things, so we are good at talking each other out of larger purchases that would otherwise infringe on our chosen lifestyle.
To the outside observer, our lifestyle may appear ‘cheap’ or ‘time-wasting’ or ‘uncomfortable’, but in truth it affords us a tremendous freedom to do what we want, when we want, and without remorse.
Thanks for the site, and keep it up!!
Very true–defining your values is key to mindful spending. Thanks for the kind words and the insight!
I think most people portray “frugalurs” (I made up a word) to be like the weirdos on that Extreme Cheapskates show. That is unfortunate because it makes frugal people (frugalurs) seem quite obsessive about saving money and that that is all they care about and, as someone else said, that’s simply not true. It’s more about the philosophy of living within your means and how by living a simple, not extreme version of this philosophy, can change ones life for the better.
Totally with you on that, Ed. And I dig the new word 🙂
I just tell people that frugality is all about developing and using existing skills. That usually puts any mockery or debate to rest.
Interesting take on frugality! It explains why DIY and frugality usually go hand in hand.